Surrounding environment plays the most important rolein forming your thoughts. The people around you, the daily situations you comeacross makes you the person who you are.
The positive or negative nature ofpeople surrounding you directly influences your mood, action, and decisions. If you’resurrounded by negative people then you start thinking negative about everysituation. For example- if people around you are frustrating, shouting at eachother then you will end up with the same mood and frustration. If you want to be a creative person then it’snecessary that you should surround yourself with creative things, art, and creativepeople.
You have to constantly look for creative ideas from everywhere-from paintings, and other small things. Dullsurrounding and dull people will not give you any creative ideas. Let’s take this in a healthyway. If you decide to lose weight and get a beach body for summer butyour refrigerator and your kitchen is full of chips, cola, cake, soda and otherunhealthy food then it gets very difficult for you to resist the temptation.And you will end up eating one of those things and the workout you did at the gym is in vain. So if you working on a plan of losing weight then the first thing you should do is remove all thethings from your surrounding that can tempt to eat. Ignore meeting the peoplewho does not gives you positive vibes.
Familyand friends also play the important rolein shaping your thoughts and actions. If they don’t trust your decisions then you lose trustin yourself, if they think that you cannot do it then you also startthinking that maybe seriously you can’t do it. On the other hands if yourparents are supportive then you can achieve anything you want. The people in your office, the college also change your thoughts. If you are engaged with smartand intelligent people then you also ended up with smart decisions. They mentoryou and help you to choose the rightthing.
They teach you to handle difficultsituations, but if your company is some people who are lazy, inactive and don’tinvolve themselves in activities then you will also become lazy and postponethe things. Make smart, hardworking andsupportive friends.Don’t afraid to opt for new opportunities becausesometimes your present work or job is not the one you wanted and it’s making you frustrated. So, don’t afraid totake any other opportunity. If you want to be influenced by other great peoplethen you should also be influencing others.
You can shape your own behavior and personality which can beinfluential for others.