In the yearof 1962, a young man named Joseph fell love with a lady Marina.
They lived togetherin Russia and had kid together. She was painter and he was poet. Everything wasgoing fine until one day in 1972 Soviet authorities came and took away Joseph.
Hewas deported from Soviet Union and was send to Vienna. And after that Marina and Joseph never met. Why he wasdeported?Joseph was NoblePrize winner, Joseph Brodsky, the well known poet. He won it in 1987 in literature.
His work isliked and appreciated around the world except Soviet Union. They think that hiswork was anti-soviet. By the helpof some of the fellow poets, he was in United States. He started teaching in universitiesof Yale, Cambridge, and the University of Michigan. In 1991, nineteen years inthe wake of being deported from the Soviet Union, Brodsky was delegated theUnited States Poet Laureate. Step by stepinstructions to Deal with Your Critics and Detractors · In 1988, Brodsky gave a speech at University of Michigan.
He sharedvery useful strategy to deal with critics, detractors and negative people.· Of course there are so many people around us, from office,from your friends who makes you unhappy. He insisted that you should not payattention to the people who makes your life miserable. · He said that you should not tell stories about the people whomake your life miserable to others.
If you complain about how they treat you,how they talk to you, they enjoy it. · Anybody is doing wrong with you; you should not do wrong withhim in return. Don’t react to the situations,why graying your hairs in tension of others.· Forgiving and forgetting about them will help you live a peacefuland good life. You cannot remove them from your life but at least forgivingthem will make your life easy. · The effect of negative thoughts magnified when we talk aboutit or discuss it. Everybody makes bad decisions, chose wrong things and nodoubt we are surrounded by it.
But you cannot just regret your decisions allyour life, we have to move on. Do somethinggood that is worth listening and worth your attention.